An Anxious America: Social Humans Verses Smart Phones

This morning I was standing in line patiently waiting to order my tall soy chai when I noticed something about the people standing in line with me.  The three patrons directly in front of me had their heads titled downwards as they typed away on their smart phones. I wondered what they were searching for, who they were tagging, or what they were hashtagging.  Or perhaps they were pinning, playing candy crush, or  reading the news.  These three patrons included a business man with a tie holding a blackberry, a student with his backpack wearing a beanie hat, and a woman dressed casually with her purse tucked at her side.  Then my eyes expanded past the three directly in front of me, as I scanned the rest of the Starbucks line. Nearly everyone in line was removed socially from the current environment.

Of the eleven people who stood in line waiting to order drinks seven of them were uninvolved in the social situation and environment as they entertained their anxiousness on their smart phones.  I watched as only four stood strong with their heads high and devices tucked away.  But then it happen,  Man Down! (or should I say Woman Down!)  One woman of the remaining four ordered.  As she awaited her delightful drink she too reached into her purse and pulled out a device.  In this moment the number moved to eight of eleven people in line that were busy bustling away on their smart device. Nearly 73 percent of the people in line were not engaging directly into the social situation that they were a part of.  Not only were there no verbal conversations amongst them, but they were so engrossed with their heads down and personal agenda, that they didn’t even non-verbally communicate with smiles or looks.  Are we opening up to a world where technology may be a catalyst in hindering our social development?

We need to be aware of a new social consciousness as the use of technology and smart phones rises.  But what are we doing to make sure we remain and continue to become socially intelligent and socially in-tune?  When was the last time you turned off your smart phone for a whole day and just allowed yourself to be engaged in all your social interactions?  Try it.  Your anxiousness may increase the first few times you unplug.  This just goes to show us that we are actively having some kind of relationship with technology and smart phones.  We live in an Anxious America. Time for a break up.  Time to be more socially intelligent.

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