You can not find your self worth in another person, thing, job, or hobby.  It has to come from within yourself.   Whatever you do for a job is what you do, not who you are.  You need to separate yourself from these things.  As adults we are always asking, What do you do for a living?  It is difficult to separate ourselves from our jobs, but we must do it.

Some of the items that let you know your self worth are:

• confidence
• knowledge
• caring for yourself
• respect for others

Learn to appreciate these things to understand you are worth more than the things you do.  Some signs that can tell you there is a lack of self-worth are the following.  Use these items to help yourself and others explore their self worth:

• neediness
• insecurity
• defensivness
• lack of communication
• deceptive behaviors

You must go into a relationship valuing yourself if you want someone else to see value in you.