Maximize Your Happiness with Rituals in Your Relationship

 

 

With so much in our lives to keep us busy, it is difficult to get quality time to connect with your significant other.  Maybe you are constantly rushing out the door for work or school; you might be picking up the kids for a quick second only to get them dressed and right out the door again for soccer practice.  You might be in the middle of a big move or frustration may have kicked in about a big life change.  Whatever the situation, it is important that we continue to develop and sustain rituals in our relationships.  

 

Too often, couples are missing the quality connection because they are rushing off to the next event or hammering out the next big project.

Allowing time for your partner can help alleviate some of life’s stress, while at the same time creating quality romance and bonding.

Rituals can help you connect to your partner.  Life can get busy and overwhelming, and before you know it disconnection has happened in your relationship.

Develop a ritual in your relationship to stay connected such as: 

  • Walks outside
  • Romantic baths together
  • Coffee and talk in the morning
  • Watching a television show together

Remember: 

  • Whatever you choose make sure you are connecting.
  • You might not talk, but during the television show you can playfully sit on your partner’s lap or spoon on the couch.
  • Make sure the rituals contain an intention physical and emotional connection, such as talk and touch.
  • Remove any distractions such as smart phones or work emails.

Sit down together and think about what would be meaningful to you and your partner.  It is important that you understand how each of you connects with one another.  In an earlier article, we discussed the five love languages quiz: this can help show you how to romantically engage with your partner.  Here is a link to the quiz:  http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/

First, understand what makes your partner feel connected to you.  Then, develop rituals around those languages that can connected you on a regular basis.

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